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Library question 1What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 2What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 3What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 4What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 5What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 6What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 7What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 8What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 9What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into? Library question 10What counts as cheating to you? What would an ex say is your biggest relationship red flag, and would they be right? What behavior would immediately make you lose interest in someone? How would you feel if your partner enjoyed an evening out with friends without you? What is one thing you would never do in a relationship? What boundaries are non-negotiable for you in a relationship? How do you naturally show love to someone you care about? How do you most like to receive love and affection? What small gesture would make you feel especially appreciated? What would your closest friends say is your most underrated quality? What is something you are proud of that rarely comes up on a first date? What does a meaningful, low-cost date look like to you? What's a relationship lesson you had to learn the hard way? What is one thing you wish someone knew about you before dating you? Tobacco use Drug use Alcohol use What are you genuinely looking for right now? How do you prefer exclusivity to happen? How do you feel about marriage someday? Do you personally want children or more children in the future? How do you feel about dating someone who already has children? What hobbies, interests, or things can you happily lose a few hours doing? A completely free day with no obligations sounds best spent… Your social battery is usually… What are some hopes or dreams you genuinely want to experience in your life? What are your long-term life goals? If life goes well, what does your everyday life look like 5–10 years from now? How much adventure do you want in normal life? Your normal communication style is closest to… You get a message while you are genuinely busy. What happens? During a disagreement, what works best for you? If your partner says something you did hurt them, your first move is usually… If a disagreement cannot be resolved right away, what is a healthy next step for you? What has a past relationship taught you about how you show up as a partner? Which statement sounds most like you? Contact with exes is… What boundaries around close friendships help both partners feel trusted and respected? What approach to phone privacy and openness feels healthy to you? How jealous are you, realistically? Can you apologize without immediately adding “but you…”? Your money style is closest to… How would you describe your credit situation right now? If your credit has taken a hit, which best describes why? Is there any criminal history a serious partner should know about? Criminal history context Your normal level of clean is… “Plan a date” means… Ideal weekend? Could you relocate someday for the right relationship or shared plan? How affectionate are you? What helps you feel cared for? (Choose up to two.) Your partner is having an awful day. What is your instinct? I say, “I do not want fries.” What is your next move? How long may a dirty dish legally remain in the sink? We have to assemble complicated furniture together. What happens? The bedroom thermostat situation should be… On a road trip, who controls the music? The shopping cart after unloading groceries… There is one perfect serving of leftovers in the fridge. What happens? We are clearly lost. Your move? How many times may an alarm be snoozed before it becomes a relationship issue? Movie-night snacks are… What is one green flag you genuinely bring to a relationship? What’s one relationship habit or red flag you’re aware of in yourself—and what are you doing about it? Final statement: why should this application make it past initial review? What does being a boyfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you make sure the mental load and everyday effort are shared? When your partner is having a hard day, how do you show up without trying to control the solution? What does being a girlfriend mean to you in the unglamorous Tuesday moments? How do you speak up about your needs before resentment builds? What does mutual effort look like in the way you date and build a relationship? What does the word partner mean to you in ordinary day-to-day life? How should two people build shared expectations without assuming there is one default relationship script? What does making room for each other's independence look like in a committed relationship? What little thing do I do that helps you feel appreciated? What favorite memory reminds you that we make a good team? What part of our life together are you especially proud of? What kind of time together leaves you feeling closest to me? What little routine makes an ordinary day feel more like our day? What activity or tradition should we protect as our special thing? What helps our best conversations feel relaxed, open, and easy? What is something you enjoy telling me about that you would love for me to keep asking about? What little end-of-day question helps us feel connected, even on busy days? What everyday task or routine do we already handle well as a team? What is one small way we could make a shared routine simpler for both of us? What kind of quick check-in helps us stay on the same page when life gets busy? What are you excited for us to try, learn, or build together? What is one goal we would have fun working toward as a team this season? If we saved one evening a month for something we both love, what would you pick? If our relationship were a sitcom, what would the title be—and which one of us gets the cold open? What would a nature documentary narrator say about us trying to pick dinner? Be kind; the footage is already damning. What highly specific award should our household give us this year: Best Recovery After Being Hangry, Most Improved Date Planner, or something better? What kind of cuddle connection are you looking for? Your natural cuddle role is… Where does ideal cuddling happen? (Choose up to three.) How cuddle-heavy are you, honestly? How long can you happily stay cuddled before you need to reposition, stretch, or escape the blanket cave? What is the best way for someone to check whether you want physical affection? How should cuddling and kissing be treated? Cuddling should come with what expectations beyond cuddling? If you suddenly need space while cuddling, what feels best? Any cuddle-related hard no, sensitivity, injury, or boundary someone should know before getting comfortable? Which kinds of touch usually feel comforting? (Choose up to three.) The ideal cuddle temperature is… (Choose up to two.) Blanket policy? Pets joining the cuddle pile are… If cuddling turns into sleep, what usually happens? How sensitive are you to perfume, cologne, smoke, or strong scents when someone is that close? Cuddle-night provisions should include… (Choose up to three.) During a movie while cuddling, are we… You’ve had an awful day. What kind of cuddle support sounds best? After a really good cuddle session, what makes it feel even better? Describe your ideal cuddle situation in enough detail that someone could actually get it right. What makes someone feel safe, comfortable, and easy to be physically affectionate with? Final pitch: why would you make an excellent cuddle companion? What are you hoping to find here: a real connection, a good date, or someone who also thinks 'what should we eat?' is a legally binding question? Your ideal first date is… Your social battery at the end of a busy week is… A free day appears on your calendar like a rare wildlife sighting. What do you do? A pretty typical weekend for you includes… Choose up to two: what makes a meal or snack a win for you? You see a message during a chaotic day. Your honest move is… What can you happily talk about for 20 minutes before remembering this was meant to be a short answer? How do you naturally show someone you care? (Choose up to two.) A surprise bill appears. Your household-management instinct is… A healthy amount of together-time and solo-time looks like… Date night needs a plan. What is your contribution to civilization? A flat-pack shelf arrives with 43 pieces and one mysterious extra screw. You… There is one last shared fry. State your policy for the record. A disagreement appears without an appointment. What helps you get back on the same team? Your person has had a day with enough plot twists for a limited series. Your first move is… Name one green flag you bring to a relationship. Evidence may include follow-through, kindness, or returning the good container. What is one tiny relationship habit you are working on? The committee appreciates self-awareness and realistic timelines. What does a really good ordinary evening look like for you? The committee accepts pajamas as formal attire. What is something you are looking forward to lately? Tiny joys absolutely count. Final pitch: why should the matchmaker advance your file? Keep it charming, honest, and under the length of a director's cut. Write the one-sentence review your best friend would leave after watching you date. Honest, affectionate, and legally safe, please. What kind of connection are you hoping to find—and what would make it feel right for you? What do you love doing enough to lose track of time? Bonus points if you can talk about it without needing a PowerPoint. Your ideal day off has no obligations. What are we likely to find you doing? What helps you feel comfortable opening up to someone new? What qualities make you feel safe, respected, and appreciated around another person? What are a few values you try to live by, even when the week gets messy? When life gets stressful, what kind of support feels helpful—and what should someone avoid doing? What is a green flag you bring to a connection—and one you hope to find in someone else? Pick a first-meet plan that sounds like you: cozy coffee, a walk, a lively activity, a great meal, or something else? What does luxury mean to you? (Choose up to three.) Which side of generosity feels most natural to you? Which relationship dynamic sounds most appealing? How comfortable are you with a significant age-gap relationship? What age difference could you realistically see working for you? Your ideal impressive date looks most like… How does travel fit into the life you want? (Choose up to two.) How important are privacy and discretion in your dating life? What kind of weekly rhythm fits you best? Which home life sounds most like your idea of luxury? How full do you like your social calendar? Being spoiled, to me, can mean… (Choose up to three.) If one partner earns substantially more, what feels fair? When should lifestyle and financial expectations be discussed? How do gifts fit into romance for you? What do you bring to a relationship that has nothing to do with money, status, or appearance? What does generosity look like when money is not involved? What would make a generous or luxury-minded relationship start to feel transactional or disrespectful to you? If your partner wants to make your life easier, what kind of support feels most meaningful? (Choose up to three.) How direct should two people be about what they expect from a generous relationship? When someone is generous with you, what makes them feel genuinely appreciated in return? How comfortable are you receiving expensive gifts, trips, or financial help from someone you are dating? How important is personal presentation to you? Which social settings actually sound enjoyable to you? (Choose up to three.) Something goes wrong at a nice restaurant or hotel. How do you handle it? How do you feel about dressing for the occasion? How comfortable are you hosting or attending dinners, events, or gatherings where you may not know everyone? If there is a noticeable age gap, how comfortable are you with other people noticing or having opinions about it? How important is being in a similar life stage? If friends or family questioned the relationship because of age, money, or lifestyle differences, what would you want from your partner? In an age-gap relationship, which future topics matter enough to discuss early? (Choose up to three.) Even if the lifestyle boxes are checked, what makes the connection itself worth choosing? What would make you walk away even if the lifestyle looked perfect on paper? What kind of affection and closeness makes a relationship feel real to you? (Choose up to two.) How much independence do you want inside a serious relationship? What makes you feel genuinely chosen rather than simply included in someone’s lifestyle? If the connection becomes serious, what would you hope this relationship grows into?
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